AM I AT RIGHT PLACE??

YEP!!

Am i at right place??

Have you ever encountered that, you have studied very hard for some exam or practiced to your best for a game but still you choked!!!

SO, the question is why is it so??

Let me tell you, according to my own observations and understanding only...I will ask you some questions and answering them you will get to the reason on your own. Try to summarise the blog on your own.

* At what time i used to sleep and wake up when i was in 11-12, and what are those timings now?

* For how long i used to sit for study when i was in class 11-12, and what is that time now?

* How often i watch a movie when i was in 11-12, and ...... now?

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Now analyse why the answers are different (in some cases answers could be in positive but they are rare). Is it because at that time study was hard, or pressure from home, or i had more focus and clearity ?

Believe me none of them.

The only reason is your friends.Earlier your friends study, so you too study to match or par them.

Earlier they din't watch much movies, and so you did't AND SO ON,,,

__Human mind believes what it sees. whatever you see in your surroundings, mind perceives it, analyses it. It builds its own beliefs over them and then those beliefs becomes our habits.

if you say to yourself that "smoking is good", even thought knowing that it is bad, then if not today than surely tomorrow , your mind will say itself "smoking is good".

In BENGAL, according to some rituals, women walk willingly over burning coal, Can you do this?

Why you cannot and why they can? Are they not humans, or they have some mystic qualities?

NO,Because its just a matter of belief. They could do so because their belief allows them and we cannot because ours not allow us to do so.

So now the point is how their beliefs are like so?

Answer is simple, just think over their upbringing. when they were of 2 years age, they saw their mother, aunt, grandmother, neighbours doing such feat. And also, it was passed in their minds at that time that doing so is correct, then naturally it becomes their belief or habit.

Just like in Bengal story, a children belief is shaped because of those around them, similarly your beliefs are because of your habits, which are shaped because of your friends and surroundings.

...............................DO PONDER OVER IT.

CONCLUSION;

SO, coming to our topic, what is it like my beliefs(habits) and my friends??

Simple, if your best friend has energy, motivation and vision to win, do best, do hardwork then naturally you too be influenced in positive way and make your better beliefs.

(we have got our answer, now we will try to clear further more)

A good man wisely said, " show me your five friends and i will tell you what kind of people you are".

also " you are average of five people around you".

Q1. what should i do if live with more that five people or less than that?

A. Here five is just a number, actually it emphasize on those persons with whome you associate or want to be associated.

Q2. What should i do, if i couldnot find or is not in touch with friends I want?

A. Just tell me do Bill gates Or Elon musk have any such friend now, Or do Srila prabhupada had any such friend, but still they have made it to their visions. 

 No, they not. So, what they did or are doing? They simply make good books and good thoughts as their friends.

So, either you can make like books as your friend or search for your campanions.

Q3. What should I do, If my friends are good, motivated, hardworking but not of my stream?

A. Typical one. Then you are lucky. Donot loose them, and follow A2.

......THANKYOU

Disclaimer: Above done mischief is not intended hurt anyone feelings and... Motive is to just write my views and that's all. Do write your own view point over this and acknowledge if the blog is helpful.

 Comments and suggestions are always welcomed.